The Taboo of Female Child Sex Abusers
We don’t often hear about female child sex abusers until an extreme case hits the headlines, but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t happening.
BBC Radio 4’s File on 4 recently decided to investigate just how widespread this abuse is by submitting a Freedom of Information Request to police forces across the UK.
Data from 36 police forces across England and Wales found that 10,400 reports of female perpetrated child sex abuse were reported between 2015 and 2019. This averages at 40 reports a week and more than 2,000 a year.
So why aren’t we hearing about these reports?
Lack of Understanding
Dr Andrea Darling, a criminology researcher at Durham University, believes that there’s still a “lack of understanding” about female-perpetrated abuse. She told File on 4 that “potentially abusive behavior that may have been picked up if the perpetrator had been male is explained away.”
In society, we often view women as maternal caregivers, and so it can sometimes be hard to believe that women can also be child abusers. Unfortunately, this prevents a lot of victims from coming forward, for fear of not being believed.
File on 4 pointed out that as a lot of female child sex abuse goes unreported, we don’t actually know how often it’s happening. Many male victims of female abusers report feelings of shame and guilt when it comes to talking about their abuse, as it’s usually women who are expected to be victims of abuse, and men the perpetrators.
But while it’s still more common for females to be victims of abuse, File on 4 have stressed that the case numbers of victims abused by women don’t reflect the true nature of the problem.
Survivors UK, a charity who offer counselling and support to male victims of rape and sexual abuse, told File on 4 that it takes male victims an average of 26 years to report their abuse. Sadly this means that victims can go years without the support and advice they need.
Many victims will also turn to coping strategies such as isolation and recreational drug or alcohol abuse. It can also cause relationship problems for the victim, even years later, including confusion around sexual boundaries and difficulty with knowing how to treat partners.
What Are the Most Common Offences?
Statistics collected by File on 4 revealed that of the 10,400 cases reported between 2015 and 2019, the most commonly reported offences included sexual activity with a child and sexual assault, both of which were reported more than 2,600 times. Other offences include rape which was reported 382 times.
While the report found that there were some offences against older children, over 5,400 of the victims were aged between 11 and 17, and around 3,800 victims were aged under 11.
Since 2015, there’s been an 84% increase in reports of female-perpetrated child sex abuse.
“It’s promising to see that more victims are coming forward about their abuse,” says Senior Associate Solicitor Liam Goggin who specialises in Physical and Sexual Abuse Claims.
“Hopefully this increase in reporting will encourage more victims to come forward, without the fear of stigma or judgement. We’re here to support victims of abuse, whatever their situation.”
If You Need Support
We understand that talking about abuse is difficult, especially if you’re worried that you won’t be believed. Our specialist team of Abuse Solicitors are here to support you whether you just want some free, confidential legal advice, or you’re looking to make a claim for compensation.
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If you’ve not reported your physical or sexual abuse to the police, we can help you to do this so you don’t have to worry about going through it alone. Our patient and understanding Solicitors and Lawyers have helped victims of female abusers to access the support they need to get on the road to recovery. Get in touch today for a confidential chat.
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